“When one bases his life on principle, 99% of his decisions are already made.” Unknown.

I spend the majority of my time with people much younger than my 51 years. Most of the younger generation with whom I spend time have a passion for Jesus and yearn to serve Him. They recognize we were created to worship the Most High God. But sometimes in their worship they over-think. Growing up in a culture with microwave food and instant access on the internet, they want to find a fast track to effective service to God. But some things cannot be achieved in the time it takes a heat up a hot pocket. Relationships take time. Unpacking the line from God’s great purpose in eternity to our individual service to Him cannot be found in the click of a mouse.

I have had more conversations with Jesus-loving young men and women than I can remember. So many of them have to do with their desire to live hard for God all their lives. My advice to them is actually quite simple, and comes from Romans 12:1-2. When you truly know Christ through the gospel, and give yourself to serve Him with radical affection, finding His “will” or “plan” for your life has less to do with geography on a map and more to do with proximity to Him, less to do with a position and more to do with your posture of worship. It is less a roadmap and more a relationship.

In Romans 12:1-2 Paul picks up after teaching for 11 chapters on the amazing gospel from creation to eternity, from our sinfulness to His salvation. Paul then asserts that in response we present our bodies as a living sacrifice. In other words, we live to worship (verse 1).

Everyone worships. Most worship today is simply depraved. We worship stuff, we worship comfort, or ourselves. Through the gospel we learn to worship Christ, and learn the amazing irony that the only way to truly live is to die to ourselves, the only way to be free is to be a slave to God, the only way to win is to surrender all we are.

This means rejecting the things of this world and being transformed increasingly through the renewing of our minds, and in so doing we discover the very thing we seek—the will of God. Just read Romans 12:2.

Do you worship God? Do you constantly renew your mind, rejecting the lures of the culture and embracing the gospel’s power?

As a freshman in high school I was a shy, nervous, skinny little kid. If you told me then that God would call me to be a teacher and to give my life training leaders, I would have become a Buddhist monk and taken a boat to Tibet. I actually told a teacher that year I could not do an oral book report because I feared I would wet my pants or throw up or both due to nerves. But I genuinely loved Jesus. And I believed and tried to live Romans 12:1-2 as best as I could. Today at 51 I teach at one of the greatest seminaries on the earth, equipping leaders to take the gospel literally all over the world. If the Lord allowed me to write out the rest of my life, I would do what I am doing right now. I had no idea as a freshman in high school that I could do what I do now or that I would enjoy it. It was not my in my career plan even as I started college. But over the years God has been gracious to make clear His remarkable plan. I have done nothing to earn it and nothing to achieve it. But I have worshiped Him, and that has made all the difference.

*** Alvin L. Reid, PhD, serves as Professor of Evangelism and Student Ministry at Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary in Wake Forest, NC. Author or co-author of over a dozen books on missional Christianity, spiritual awakenings, and student issues, Reid is a popular speaker young adults and young leaders. He and his wife have 2 children, Josh and Hannah. Find more at www.alvinreid.com.